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The test of courage comes when we are in the minority.
The test of tolerance comes when we are in the majority.


Sunday, January 3, 2010
just ranting.




first thing.
HAPPY 21ST BIRTHDAY TO MY PRI SCH GF, YVONNE (:
we shall all meet up soon again !

im loving every part of 2010, perhaps for now. i have more time in my hands and i will be able to accomplish more so that's a good start i reckon. everybody does reflections at certain times in their lives and what a better time to do it when the year comes to a close and a new one begins. i guess there never was a fabulous year or a really downcast one. i had this conversation with a dear friend in the morning during our breakfast and we were just being melancholic but i guess it made sense how we both felt that with age comes maturity and contentment comes with grateful hearts.

there will always be something or someone better out there for us to achieve or meet but what's important is the realization that this competition will never end. its not so much as settling for second best but just knowing when to stop and appreciate the things and people around us. i dont know if ive put the point across well enough. oh wells, 2009 was a sabbatical year, one of renewal and a journey of discovery. i fell in love with travelling(though i hate the flights) and it opened my eyes to a world of poverty and pain, of apathy yet vigour, of suffering yet beauty, of riches and wealth.

heartaches and setbacks were part and parcel of the journey and they were constantly overcome with stark reminders of how small i actually am. i'm glad that i've this yearning to want to see more and to contribute in any way i can. i feel blessed to have visited a few places in the year. the most chillax places to the busiest, the richest to one of the poorest. and so an ode to maybe, an ode to another year of uncertainty, but a sure pledge to wider horizons.

sometimes one should learn to move on. if she doesn't love you anymore, please stop trying means and ways clinging onto it. it's pointless. first thing, the heart is not there anymore; secondly you'll only look dumb like that. and life is so short, but don't leave him hanging on just because you don't want to break his heart the truth is better than a sneak any day, that way he don't take it personal. get it done with and go on with your life.

we are all just growing up: changes.

its the sea of opportunities out there, and that you have to take the first step to get whatever you are looking for. i'm moving on to my next phase in life, different from the sea of familiarity, of comfort. but if i don't try something, i would be just like everyone else.

it's cases around me i've seen, which i'm even more affirmed that there are things we shouldn't put in so much for now, like in r/s. we're still young. we'll still meet more people. who knows what lies ahead of us. however, it doesn't mean i'm on the side of infidelity. we should still stay truthful and loyal if we already have a good partner with us, and not getting done with another behind.

am on the way towards my 21st.
who will i meet this year? nobody knows.

alright. im going to bed alr.
though i had a 15hour sleep just now LOL.
totally wasted my off day like that.

i wanna club asap.
真想跟朋友出国