The test of courage comes when we are in the minority. The test of tolerance comes when we are in the majority.
Purpur. 04.26.1989 23 year old. If you know me, I get the jitterbugs when you put me next to a stranger. I prefer tea to coffee, late nights to afternoons. I love cakes, chocolates and candies. I love overseas trips. I make sure I get my trips at least twice a year. I can't use chopsticks in the right way. I get bored of material things very easily. I contemplate at almost everything. I'm a major procrastinator. I get annoyed when I hear metals rubbing against each other. I rely on cabs too much. I love my boyfriend and gfs. I can sleep for more than 12 hours if you don't bomb me up. hah. I love nua-ing in my cosy bed. I'm mostly comfortable in my own skin, and I've never seen a need to conform to society or become the person you think I should be. I dress the way I deem fit, and I'll play this game the way I wanna play it. I live, I laugh, I love, I trip and I take chances. My love. I want the person who will pursue me, the one who will make an ordinary moment seem magical, the person who brings out the best in me and makes me want to be a better person. He is my best friend, the only person who will drop everything to be with me at any time no matter what the circumstances; the person who makes me smile like no one else and when he smiles I know he needs me. I have found the person who want will want to show me off to the world when I am in sweats and a t-shirt, but appreciates it when I dress up for him. And most of all, have found the person who puts me at the center of his universe, because that's where I belong. 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(: i like talking to good old friends, they break the barrier between time and distance and all of a sudden i'm being transported into an entirely new world, one where the past and present intertwine. i want to talk hours and hours non-stop with people whom i remember so well, as if their faces are carved into the walls of my heart. so much has changed, yet a lot still hasn't. this week has been putting people from my past back into my life, and i am nothing short of grateful for that. we laughed at our crazy acts in the past, shook our heads on the stupid things we did; yet smiling (: heading down to JB again this sat with eileen ! shopping and eating ! waiting for her to get done with her ear LOL at the hospital now and drive me over to IMM cos she wanna go GIANT shopping =.=" lazy to go out as i feel like nuaing at home the entire day PLAIN LYING ON MY BED OR CATCHING SOME DRAMA ON THE NET(bryan kept asking me to go out and meet =.=" ). got persuaded to step out of house instead, but of course my sole aim over there is Daiso ! :D and then end of next month BKK WITH JASMINE! I CAN'T WAIT :D !!!!!!! she just celebrated her bday yesterday night drinking, wanted to go but couldn't cos i had work. previously was chalet which i attended. though i was very tired as i cabbed over there from work that night, i enjoyed myself with her friends as well. really nize people. (: and da yi ma's here recently, that explains the foul mood and stuffs. i should really change my hot temper at times lol. actually it's the straightforward stuff + v rash + gan qing you shi. i do improve alot, okay so much! ask the people who knows me right in my early teens, you will know how demanding i was; every single thing has to go MY WAY. ah tat doesn't call me "princess" for so many years, for no reason. so i've changed alot i think, lol but room for improvement HAHA. alright i should get changed ! been a long time i last posted a long one hehe (:
But baby, where they knock you down and out Is where you oughta stay